You’re single. You’ve done some inner work. You have taken action. Yet you are still waiting to find your beloved, your ideal partner, and it’s really frustrating. I know it is especially tough right now when the world is changing and meeting someone looks different. You thought you would be married or partnered by now. You may feel your “bio clock” is ticking because you want kids. You have watched so many friends get married and wondering is there anyone actually out there for ME?? It may be easy to make it about the ever-changing world we live in, the changes that happen in the dating world, and are just tired of waiting.
Sister, you don’t have to wait to make the shifts within yourself to be aligned to meet someone. You don;’t have to wait to learn relationship skills so when you do meet someone, you have them.. You don’t have to wait to uplevel your own life so it feels great to be who you are. It’s not about the waiting and feeling miserable about it, it is what you do during the time that you happen to be single. It’s about becoming the woman you want to be who is ready to connect with the man you want to be with.
This is precious time you have to prepare for love, to increase your own vibe, to clarify the kind of relationship you want to have even if you feel you have done it already. It’s an amazing time to work on self-love, to create a spiritual practice, to paint, to read, to do things that you want to do.
Yes, you will find someone to share it all with, but this is a great time to be the love you want for you. That will help you attract the right person but more importantly BE the highest and best version of yourself.
Susan Ortolano – Relationship Coach
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