Let’s be honest. Marriage can be a wonderful journey, an amazing adventure, a sacred union of love. It is also an opportunity for growth and healing of your history, life transitions, unexpected situations, which will bring up conflict, disagreements, disconnection. Learning to navigate all that comes with a marriage without the skills and tools to understand how best to do so will have you go round and round blindly trying to figure out what to do and fail as it’s like throwing spaghetti at the wall, hoping something will stick, but making a mess in the meantime. When you don’t know how, you need an expert to show you the way and teach you what you need to know to navigate the challenges and unexpected things that happen effectively, consciously, gracefully as a team.
We are often taught growing up that we need to do everything on our own, which seems to falsely prove how great we are, or we don’t want to invest in doing what it takes for the marriage to truly thrive. Hiring an expert mentor like me will keep show you the way.