Does this sound like you?
You are a married couple whose relationship is under serious strain - marked by repeated unresolved conflict, poor communication, emotional distance, broken trust, and growing frustration, leaving you questioning whether your marriage can survive, yet not ready to give up.
You may have tried marriage counseling, couple's workshops, read countless self help books, tried more date nights, but have made little progress. You always seem to circle back to the same old relationship patterns that keep you feeling lonely and disconnected in your marriage, wondering if it’s going to end.
If you & your spouse want to stay together & reignite an extraordinary passionate, conscious marriage that is rock solid, but you’re struggling with trust issues, lack of sex, intimacy, & connection, THIS IS FOR YOU!
Some say it only takes one person to save the marriage but that puts all the work on that person. In my process, BOTH of you must be open to saving the marriage and participate in the process as there are two of you in it.
Why now?
Divorce has an emotional, financial, and logistical cost. The average cost in the US- $40,000- tax advisors, attorney fees, other experts to help divide your assets.
You lose what you built together, experience years of grief, have to let go of spouses family and mutual friendships. If you have children, you will watch them suffer, damaging their sense of security, well-being, & feelings of safety.
You’re all alone once again.
Do you remember when you first fell in love?
- Imagine reigniting your intimacy and passion, recreating that sacred trust, fun, laughter, playfulness, & bond you thought you’d have forever.
- Imagine if you could effectively resolve any conflict & even stop it before it starts, making communicating with your partner feel safe again.
- Imagine discovering new ways with to consciously share with each other, without conversations turning into big blow ups.
- Imagine feeling the freedom of being able to be vulnerable, to reopen your heart, to express yourself more authentically, have adventures together, feeling like you have your best friend back.
- Imagine finding your way back to each other’s arms, have more emotional & sexual intimacy, more trust, & more respect than you even did at the beginning.
Who is this for?
This is for you if:
- You both want to repair and strengthen your marriage.
- You are still living together and willing to participate together in the process.
- Your relationship environment is stable enough to do the work.
- There is no active addiction, domestic violence, or untreated mental health crisis.
- You are open to a deeper process.
This work is holistic and different from traditional therapy, and you are willing to explore new perspectives and tools. - You are ready now.
- You are not just thinking about change - you are ready to take action.
- At least one partner is 35 or older and you are established in your adult lives.
Most couples I work with are in a stage of life where they have the maturity and life experience needed for the depth of work required to transform a long-term relationship.
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Discover if my Transforming Your Marriage Program is for you. Schedule your FREE Discovery Call for you and your spouse together and let me help you identify exactly what’s causing the issues in your marriage right now & your next steps to rebuilding you the one you dream of.
Are You Ready to Save & Transform Your Marriage?
- Do you desperately want your marriage to be great again, feel at a loss not knowing how to fix it, yet want to find your way back to each other?
- Do you feel you walk on eggshells from the constant cycle of unresolved arguments, and want to know how to solve them?
- Do you feel lonely, a million miles away from your partner from the lack of sexual & emotional intimacy & want to know how to bring back the deep passion, or connection you once had?
- Do you want to let go of the anger, resentment, lack of trust & respect you feel towards your spouse, & want to heal the pain & trauma from your history together?
- Do you find yourself losing hope that you can feel like soul mates again yet yearn to experience that sacred soul mate love that’s even better than the day you took your wedding vows?
- Do you feel that the rare times you spend together have an awkward silence as it seems like you have little to say to one another but want those moments to feel natural & special again?
Do you feel like you question your partner’s commitment & trustworthiness & want to know how to feel safe & secure with each other again?
With the right expert guidance, it is all possible!
It’s Time for Help Now!
If you are struggling & your marriage is hanging on by a thread, it’s time to hire an expert who is with you every step of the way, who knows how to support you with your personal & marriage transformation, who is by your side to walk you through each step as you heal the past & rebuild the extraordinary, conscious, passionate marriage you’ve always wanted without stepping another foot in a therapy office.
Free Discovery Call
***Designed for couples who still live together, free from active addiction, and are both committed to repairing their marriage
Discover if my Transforming Your Marriage Program is for you. Book your FREE Discovery Call for you and your spouse together and uncover what’s really happening beneath the struggles in your marriage!
Who I am & why listen to me?
My name is Susan Ortolano, and I am a credentialed & certified Relationship & Marriage Coach, helping married individuals & couples across the globe since 2008.
My Approach- I incorporate a holistic approach along with my relationship & marriage coaching skills, training, & expertise to accelerate the journey of saving & transforming your marriage with more depth using an inside-out approach.
Your Results- This is a results focused process that leads to a more conscious, intimate, passionate, rock solid marriage, and takes it to a deeper level in weeks, not years.
My Personal Journey- I’ve gone through the pain of an unsuccessful devastating marriage where there was no help like I offer & learned what I needed to do to have an extraordinary, conscious marriage. I have been married to the great love of my life since 2001 implementing the very process I teach.
**The Exception- I work with all marital issues except current active addiction, domestic violence, & untreated severe mental health issues.
About My Credentials
Yep, I’ve got a bunch of those too.
- Professional Certified Coach Credential — International Coach Federation
- Master Relationship Coach Certification from the Relationship Coaching Institute
- Master Certified Life Coach from Certified Life Coach Institute
- Coach training through the the Sedona Method⟨™⟩
- Certification in Conflict Mediation from the Center for Dispute Resolution
- Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology from the University of Santa Monica
- Bachelor’s Degree — UCLA & 2 Teaching Credentials
- Group Coach Facilitator from Coach and Grow R.I.C.H.
- Leadership Training Landmark Education & Ascension Leadership Academy
- Published Author — Remarrying Right
Your Free Discovery Call
***Designed for couples who still live together, free from active addiction, and are both committed to repairing their marriage
Discover if my Transforming Your Marriage Program is for you. Book your FREE Discovery Call for you and your spouse together and uncover what’s really happening beneath the struggles in your marriage!
This program has a proven track record of helping couples, like you, change their marriage and ultimately change their life.
***Designed for couples who still live together, free from active addiction, and are both committed to repairing their marriage
Discover if my Transforming Your Marriage Program is for you. Book your FREE Discovery Call for you and your spouse together and uncover what’s really happening beneath the struggles in your marriage!
Our marriage started out great but somewhere along the line, we became disconnected, were in constant conflict about both little and big things. We tried counseling, but it didn’t help to just talk about everything. Working with Susan has been a blessing and within 3 weeks, we knew we could find our way back to one another and rebuild this marriage. We couldn’t imagine life without each other, but we couldn’t figure out what to do to. Having the marriage we have is worth everything!
-D.M. & M.M. Albuquerque, New Mexico
Susan really helped us move forward as a couple at a time when we felt stuck and unsure about our future. It took courage to ask for support but once we started we were amazed at how quickly things transformed. Susan has a unique ability to “get you and who you are” quickly. We worked with her both individually and as a couple, gained new insights about ourselves, and found new, effortless ways of relating to each other and today we are happily married!
- D.R. Orange Country, California
Even before we got married, we had constant conflict and constant fighting. We kept talking over each other, yelling, and didn’t know how to communicate in a healthy way. It affected our marriage in general, our work, our family, and we were looking into a possible separation. Susan has shown us how to make our marriage a healthy one with a blended family and we are finally in flow. We thank Susan for all the fantastic coaching that helped us move forward in a better way and keep our marriage and family together.
- PW and JW Honolulu, Hawaii
I went to Susan because I didn’t know what else to do. I was ready for a divorce & needed her help with that. I started to work on myself & realized there was hope. Rami joined us & we both started to be open, honest, take responsibility, & were able to recommit to each other in a new way.
Rami was skeptical at first about this radical marriage concept, but finally took Susan’s coaching & we chose to make the changes we needed.
-Rami & Marie
Why Should You Invest in Marriage Coaching?
Without Mentoring - The Cost of Divorce
Financial
- Average cost in the US- $40,000- tax advisors, attorney fees, other experts to help divide your assets.
- You lose what you built together, including your material possessions, anything you have that is marital property. It can cost over $100,000, depending on what you have.
Emotional & Logistical
- Losing the dream you had for the marriage
- Experiencing years of emotional grief
- Having to let go of your spouse’s family & mutual friendships
- If you have kids, especially younger ones there are custody issues, splitting of time, holidays that are no longer shared as a family unit, watching your kids suffer, damaging their sense of security, well-being, & feelings of safety, with possible damaging repercussions for the rest of their lives
- Feeling guilty, resentful, & feeling like a complete failure.
Without Mentoring
- You can stay together in misery & allow the marriage to erode even further & experience all of the negative things you’re probably going through right now.
- or you can choose mentoring..
With Mentoring you will:
- Rebuild yourself- create inner transformation to be the best, most authentic version of yourself.
- Let go of the old stories, limiting beliefs you have about yourself & the world that are now bleeding into your marriage.
- Step into the magic of renewed intimacy, harmony, deeper love, & happiness that is available for you in the marriage with your best friend- your spouse.
- Have an expert who is with you every step of the way, who supports you with your personal & marriage transformation, who is by your side to walk you through each step as you move into action, create accountability to yourself, & to the vision you have for the partnership so you can have the extraordinary, conscious marriage you’ve always wanted!
Now You Have A Choice…
Free Discovery Call
- I have set up some time in the next 72 business hours to speak to you and your spouse personally about how you can begin the journey to your marriage starting TODAY!
- We’ll identify exactly what’s causing the issues in your marriage right now & dream you have for your future together.
- We’ll help you gain absolute clarity about what your next steps are to have the passionate, conscious, loving marriage that you wanted the day you said “ I do”.
- This is for couples who are still living together, free from active addiction, and both committed to repairing their marriage.